Yesterday, my 10 year old had a playdate with a friend from school. Usually when these hook-ups happen, the friends are happy to let my eight year old tag along. Unfortunately, yesterday, when the boys went down into the basement, I could hear the friend telling my little guy he could not play. Of course, he was heartbroken and came up the stairs in tears. Now this presented me with a dilemma. Do I force the older boys to include the little one or do I allow them some time to themselves? On this day, I opted to give big brother some “big kid time” by trying to engage my little one in an activity with me.
I had just received over two pounds of vintage buttons from someone on e-bay. I had been anxiously awaiting these buttons… hoping I would receive many fabulous, unique buttons to create rings. When I opened my package, I was so bummed to see what looked like a lot of just plain, old boring buttons! I thought, however, that I could occupy my little guy by having him help me start to go through the buttons to look for anything that might be special. He was skeptical at first but then after watching me start to put a few combinations of buttons together, he started to do the same. Pretty quickly, he was out pacing me in creating combinations and surprisingly, his future rings were beautiful!
I was amazed at what he was creating and watching him taught me a few lessons:
Don’t be afraid to try different or unusual combinations. Often buttons he put together or the order of how he put them together would never have occurred to me.
Also, he reinforced the old adage. “Never judge a book by its cover.” I looked and saw yucky, boring buttons. He looked and saw beautiful creations. (Checkout his beautiful ring at the top of this post or go to 2monkees to see more of our creations.)
As the dinner hour approached, it became necessary to stop. We were both sad to put away our creations and found ourselves making “just one more”. It was gratifing to spend time with my little one in a quiet, creative pursuit…..and it was nice to be reminded of the joys and creativity of a child.
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